I’ve heard mediation can cut out a costly court divorce – is this true?

As a champion of the benefits of mediation, Jones Myers is supporting Family Mediation Week which runs until January 24.

Organised by the Family Mediators Association (FMA), the campaign promotes how mediation can help separating couples to find a way forward in a constructive and positive manner. Here are some of the most common questions our clients ask us about the process.  

What is mediation?

Mediation is a means of resolving divorce disputes constructively, wherever possible, and avoiding costly, public and stressful litigation in court.  

The private and confidential process involves an independent third party, a mediator, who helps you and your ex to reach an agreement. Both of you sign an ‘Agreement to Mediate’ to enable negotiation to continue on a ‘without prejudice’ basis.

What does a mediator do?

The mediator facilitates a series of voluntary discussions – assisting and guiding you both to explore and discuss issues and helping to move dialogue forward. A successful outcome results in an agreement which is formalised into a binding court order without you having to go to court.

Can I keep my own solicitor?

Yes, mediation enables you both to retain your own solicitor who you can consult outside of the meetings.  

What happens if the mediation talks are deadlocked?

Because mediation is a voluntary process, talks can be concluded at any time if headway is not made.  

Can mediation save on legal expenses? 

Mediation can result in a swifter resolution, reducing legal expenses which mount up in prolonged divorce cases between warring couples. 

I’ve heard its compulsory – is this right?

Mediation is a voluntary process and is not compulsory. You may have read about a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) meeting, usually relating to cases involving finances or children, which couples are expected to attend before court proceedings are issued. These meetings are designed to inform both parties about alternative resolution schemes and to establish if the circumstances are suitable for mediation.   

When is mediation not relevant?

We recognise that mediation won’t work for all cases including those relating to domestic violence or child abuse where one or other party may take the view that a mediation meeting is not appropriate.  

It is vital that all couples find the right way to divorce for their own individual circumstances. Jones Myers can refer you to a mediator and can offer you support and legal advice to help you prepare for, and achieve, the desired outcome from the mediation.  

You can call our Leeds office 0113 246 0055, our Harrogate office 01423 276104, or our York office on 01904 202550. Visit jm2023.jonesmyers.co.uk, email info@jonesmyers.co.uk or tweet us @helpwithdivorce